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Emily Bazelon & Dahlia Lithwick: Monica Goodling Plays the 'Girl Card'--and It Works

May 29th, 2007 by Glenn Sacks, MA for Fathers & Families

Director of Public Affairs Monica Goodling (pictured), who is part of the Alberto Gonzalez/U.S. Attorneys scandal, is getting off light by playing the "girl card." In The Goodling Girl: How Monica Goodling played the gender card and won, Bazelon and Lithwick write:

"Nobody seems to want to go there, so we will. Let's pretend for a moment that the world divides into two types of women: the soft, shy, girly kind who live to serve and the brash, aggressive feminists who live to emasculate. Not our paradigm, but one that's more alive than dead.

"When she was White House liaison in Alberto Gonzales' Justice Department, Monica Goodling, 33, had the power to hire and fire seasoned government lawyers who had taken the bar when she was still carrying around a plastic Hello Kitty purse. Goodling, in fact, described herself as a 'type-A woman' who blocked the promotion of another type-A woman basically because the office couldn't tolerate infighting between two strong women. ('I'm not just partisan! I'm sexist, too!') That move sounds pretty grown-up and steely. Yet in her testimony this week before the House judiciary committee, Goodling turned herself back into a little girl, and it's worth pointing out that the tactic worked brilliantly.

"Look past Goodling's long, silky blond hair, which may or may not have been a distraction. She's entitled to have pretty hair. Look past her trembling hand as she swore her oath and the tremulous voice as she described her "family" at Justice. What really shot Goodling into the stratosphere of baby-doll girls were her own whispered words: "At heart," she testified, "I am a fairly quiet girl, who tries to do the right thing and tries to treat people kindly along the way." [Late-breaking discovery, courtesy of a sharp reader: Goodling used the word girl in the written rather than spoken version of her testimony.]  The idea, of course, was to scrub away her past image as ruthless, power-mad, and zealously Christian...

"The same Goodling who once wanted to be powerful, so powerful that she refused to relinquish her power to hire and fire assistant U.S. attorneys even when she changed jobs at the Justice Department, painted herself as helpful and empathetic and out of the loop. She testified that the biggest and most important part of her job was hooking up employees with tickets for sporting events. The little matter of firing assistant U.S. attorneys was a minor extracurricular. She testified that she went to a Christian school because of her devotion to 'service.' One half expected her to leap up out of the witness chair and start offering canapés to the assembled members of Congress.

"And at the heart of Goodling's ingénue performance? The astonishing claim that while she broke the law, she 'didn't mean to.' This is the stuff of preschoolers, not cum laude graduates of law school...

"But heed the lesson, girlfriends. It works. Republicans on the House judiciary committee had only gentle words and lavish praise for this girlish Monica. Even as she testified to repeatedly breaking the law, these genial uncles lauded her 'class' and her courage, falling over themselves to observe how hard testifying must have been for her. Kyle Sampson must be wondering where all this sympathy was when he was on the stand. For the most part, even the Democrats were too bamboozled to be effective. It's no accident that some of the day's most brutal questioning came from Reps. Linda Sanchez, D-Calif.; Maxine Waters, D-Calif.; and Sheila Jackson Lee, D-Texas; who may well have been as annoyed by Goodling's Girl Secretary performance as they were by the underlying conduct."

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  1. Michael H Says:

    If I stick out my bottom lip and say, "I'm sorry for being a man", will I be eligible for civil treatment from a family court judge?

  2. Pete Says:

    No Michael, he will probably have you thrown in prison and double your child support.

  3. gwallan Says:

    Isn't it wonderful that we are "all equal before the law"?

  4. Malcolm Says:

    You see this sort of thing happening all the time in courts and in more humble everyday situations. When you point out the inequity you either get a response justifying the preferential treatment along the line of "Perhaps she did...." (with no supporting evidence for such a statement) or (the real double bind), you are accused of anger.

  5. Anonymous Says:

    Well, based on my experiences with some women, it seems perfectly reasonable to allow them to switch among their various personalities when they see fit. Surely each constrasting personality stuck within a woman's psyche deserves equal time. It's only fair!

    You guys are lucky you are not forced to pay child support to each of a woman's individual personal "identities". I mean, you could be paying it to personality #1 in a given female, but personality #1 might not be sharing with personality #2 in that same female. And that's not fair, is it? Be careful that personality #2 doesn't drag you into court -- you know that the judge will feel sorry for personality #2 (not to mention #3, #4, and #5) and likely compel you to provide equal compensation to each.

    I mean it's not the woman's fault that these things are happening in her "mind".

    Certainly it is YOU, the man who was in her life, who caused all of this in the first place!

  6. Michael H Says:

    "You guys are lucky you are not forced to pay child support to each of a woman's individual personal "identities". "

    Please be careful. You may have inadvertently given an idea for a novel legal theory to some divorce industry employees.

  7. JeanB Says:

    I said it before and I will say it again. To all parents: if you allow your daughters tears to sway you, you are not doing her any favors. If she screws up then there must be punishment. Do not fall for the doe-eyed pleading, it is a ploy. It is the little girls that got away with it that are now the adults getting away with it.

  8. ed Says:

    Hey man, if she'd a taken off her shirty they would have elected her President for a day. What a bunch of old fools and hippocrats. Wait, don't call me names yet. They'll all be back at the next election. And so will she.

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